A Yoga House

‘Downsizing now the children have left home?' That's what people assumed when they heard we were planning to move. So why were we going for a large house and garden in a rural setting? Well, for years we had dreamt of a small-scale centre where we could share spiritual inspiration and the benefits of meditation and Yoga with others. A place in a rural setting that makes it easier to leave the ratrace behind you and orient yourself to what matters. To "goodness, truth and beauty", in the words of a favourite childhood hymn. A place for relaxation, mindfulness and community, where you can come home to yourself. 


But it won't be an island of inward-looking blissfulness! We want to keep our eyes and hearts open and contribute to addressing social issues. In the immediate term through involvement with refugees in our district. We are very interested in intercultural and interfaith dialogue and keen to work on that too. 


                                                      Pay attention


                                                   In this moment
                                          And in this moment, relax


So began the first yoga lesson I took with Rob Obermeyer, which took me straight to the heart of Yoga. And what is the heart of Yoga? A still space, an experience of deep peace, freedom and connection... 

So what is Yoga then? 


Yoga is... inner peace

Yoga is a state of mind: ‘Yoga is being unaffected by the whirlwinds of the mind', says Yoga philosopher Patanjali in the earliest Yoga 'handbook', the Yoga Sutras. And Yoga is your path to this state of mind, your way of 'putting the mind to rest'. There are of course many paths - that's why there are so many 'Yogas', so many religions and teachers. They have one things in common though: 'Be still...' 


Thoughts, feelings and sensations come and go in an endless stream. The mind - "Big Mind" - is still and knows, feels, experiences the stream of phenomena without narrowing itself down to the particular experiences, without being "affected". But we have become strangers to this experience because we have taught our minds other habits, those of a restless monkey that scampers after thoughts and busies itself with beliefs, rules, opinions and judgement. A very busy life! So we need help to find the path back to our original free state. Fortunately there is something that can help us, which is always with us... .


Yoga is... coming home

The body is always present, here, now and without judgement! That is why Hatha Yoga (the 'physical' Yoga best known - and developed into many varieties - in the West) was developed as an accessible form of meditation. Hatha Yoga makes use of movement, postures and breathing exercises which help to anchor the mind in the present moment. Our concentration on what is happening now enables tensions to release their grip on us - not just muscular tension but also the tensions of limiting beliefs, memories and anxieties. Our burden becomes lighter - a taste of enlightenment. The habit of orientation towards what we have, what we think, what we do and what we wants makes way for the experience of simply being aware. We come home, here and now.

                'Yoga is being unaffected by the whirlwinds of the mind.

                            Then the Seer is at home in Itself"


Yoga is... relaxed effort

This accepting awareness of reality means that Yoga can never be goal-oriented or competitive (no, not even with yourself!) It is in fact profoundly non-violent. In Hatha Yoga, non-violence starts at home, with respect for the limits and needs of the body. 'The yoga posture is firm and pleasant,' says Patanjali. The firmness comes from commitment and effort, the pleasantness from the fact that the effort is appropriate and the mind relaxed. And this relaxation is healing, in a sometimes paradoxical way: we simply observe tension and it dissolves; we simply follow the breath and it lengthens and deepens; we simply watch the stream of thoughts and it quietens...


Yoga begins with Mindfulness

Paying attention, being present, aware... Mindfulness in stillness and in movement, at rest and in action. This is the heart of every yoga lesson in The Yoga House, the heart of what we seek to practise and share here. Whether we are exploring a physical exercise or posture ('Hatha Yoga'), discussing a text, practising compassion meditation or raking the leaves...


Why Vermeer's Kitchen maid?



Walking is an important part of life at the Yoga House and also of many of the weekends and holidays we'll be running. During Yoga-walking weekends, for instance, we enjoy sociable walks with attention for the landscape and for each other. Wouter is happy to tell a bit about the landscape or region. Sometimes we stop just to enjoy the stillness in the midst of all the movement in the natural world.

Sometimes, too, we walk as a form of meditation. Early morning, for instance, we might take a meditative walk through the nearby woods, stopping occasionally for a short guided meditation. Or we alternate sitting meditation with slow walking meditation, in the Yoga room or (perferably) in the garden.


Because walking is not just healthy, relaxing, and, with others, sociable. Just like Hatha Yoga, walking can also be a form of meditation. Many meditation techniques make use of a 'support' or 'anchor'- the breath, sounds, physical sensations or a mantra - to put the mind at rest. The rhythm of the movement of walking can be such a support. The movement is grounding and anchors the attention in the body, which becomes your entrance point for self-observation. The stream of restless thoughts calms down and you are more able to let it be and not get carried away by it. Observing the environment around you  - seeing without searching, hearing, feeling, smelling - can enable the mind the rest in the moment so that you know you are here, now. A good place to be, with every step afresh.

The Kitchen Maid

The peaceful aura of Vermeer's kitchen maid seems to us an expression of what Yoga is about: being unruffled by 'the whirlwinds of the mind'. There she stands, both feet on the ground, being where she is, doing what she does with full attention. No multitasking - 'I'll just pour this milk, turn on the gas with my other hand and then...' This is mindfulness: full awareness here, now, in this moment.  In the words of a Zen saying: 'When you eat, eat. When you walk, walk.'





Mindfulness Training
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Mindfulness Stiltedag
Feb 25 2023